In the following excerpt from an interview with Reality Blurred that was released a day before the show premiered on February 12, Spencer Duhm spoke about how he sees himself as a gay contestant on Survivor.
"I don't like come across like most of the gay guys but I am, so I'll probably be like-but then again, JP was gay and nobody knew that on the show; he was about the straightest I've ever seen. ... But I won't be Todd, I surely won't be Coby. I won't be Charlie. Holy shit. I talked to my parents and I was like, 'Mom, do I sound like that?' she was like, 'Sweetheart, no, I would never let you go out in public if you sounded like that.' Thank God."In berating the more feminine gay contestants while praising the masculine gay contestants, Duhm is promoting heteronormatism. While there is nothing inherently wrong with this, the fact that he is encouraging the conformity to such social constructs is homophobic. He is normalizing "heterosexual behavior." Also, he is attempting to avoid being labeled as a gay person, thus avoiding whatever treatment he foresees might happen to him as a gay contestant. In creating distance between himself and the number of feminine gay men who appeared on the show, he is insinuating that he is more valuable as a contestant, and as a man. I hope that Duhm's misguided statements were spoken out of ignorance, and not as a reflection of the internalized homophobia he might have.
Spencer insisted that his sexual orientation is "not going to be the character I am," and said that he hasn't decided whether to share that with his tribemates. "It'll probably be based on the people around me, if they're homophobes, if they're one of those people, if I tell them, they're going to want to vote me out. Then again, girls feel non-threatened" by gay men, he said. If he does encounter a tribe of people are homophobic, he joked, "I might be bashing some homos myself."
Spencer Duhm is simply falling prey to the social and media constructions that equate masculinity with strength and femininity with weakness. He, by virtue of the interview he was quoted from above, is participating in the ideology of gender rules, which state that men must be masculine and women must be feminine. Duhm thinks that by being more masculine, he has a better chance at winning. This fits in perfectly with what the media and society have constructed, but I find it unfortunate that Duhm has not yet figured out that as a gay man, gender can not be described as a pure category, because categories come with assumptions.
Duhm's "strategy" of showcasing his more masculine traits does not guarantee him advancing further in the contest, as is evident in past season winners. Also, his tirade against effeminate gays is dangerous. Not only do statements like his create unnecessary rifts in the gay community, but they are also patronizing toward any feminine behaviors. It will be interesting to see if Duhm decides to come out to his fellow contestants this season, and if so, how so. I am committed to watching the rest of the season, especially if Duhm is still on the show. Although I do not know enough about any of the contestants to have any favorites or predictions, I hope that Duhm's actions and the editing of the show portray him and his sexuality in a manner that is fair, accurate, and inclusive, masculine or not.
